Our School
The Stable School is an Independent Special Educational Needs secondary school situated across two nurturing sites in the heart of Christchurch. Each site is designed to offer predictable, relational and emotionally safe environments where learners feel understood, valued and held in mind.
We provide high‑quality care and education for children and young people aged 11–16 who have an Education, Health and Care Plan (EHCP) with a primary need of Social, Emotional and Mental Health (SEMH). Many of our learners have experienced adverse childhood experiences, trauma, or social anxiety, and most present with co‑occurring needs such as ADHD, PDA, ODD and ASC. Our trauma‑informed approach ensures that every learner’s lived experience is recognised and responded to with compassion, curiosity and attuned practice.
Our learners are at the centre of everything we do. We work closely with families and a wide range of professionals to create a wraparound network of support that strengthens connection, consistency and trust.
We place great emphasis on the healing power of relationships. For children and young people who have experienced trauma or multiple ACES, attuned relationships with emotionally available adults are essential. These relationships provide safety, co‑regulation and the foundations for learning.
We are actively working towards achieving Trauma Informed School status, reflecting our commitment to relational practice, predictable structures and emotionally safe environments.
We know that for children and young people to be successful in education, their needs must be understood and met. This belief sits at the heart of our practice.
Across our two sites, we deliver a broad and balanced curriculum including English, Maths, Science, PSHE and Physical Education. Learners also access Humanities, Philosophy & Ethics and a range of vocational pathways such as Duke of Edinburgh, Construction, Catering and Creative Design. Our curriculum is intentionally designed to be accessible, meaningful and responsive to each learner’s strengths and needs.
At The Stable School, we adopt a trauma‑informed and holistic approach to development. Therapeutic needs are addressed throughout school life, and our classroom environments are shaped by relational safety, sensory awareness and attuned communication. Our specialist team—including Counsellors, Trauma Informed School Diploma Practitioners and ELSA‑trained staff—work alongside all staff to ensure trauma‑informed practice is embedded in every classroom, every day.
Learners are supported to embrace a wide range of enriching experiences such as snowboarding, sailing, surfing, climbing, water sports, riding, biking and workplace visits. These opportunities build confidence, cultural capital and a sense of belonging in the wider world.
We believe every experience is a learning experience. Staff maintain a non‑judgemental, curious and compassionate approach, always placing the learner at the centre. Our combined educational, pastoral, social care and therapeutic expertise create a robust, integrated and holistic offer that enables learners to feel safe, understood and ready to grow.
Our Offer
We are proud of the extensive services we provide to our learners and families, which include the following.
Our school’s ethos and aims are to uphold our Purpose, Mission, Vision and Values which are:
Purpose
Our purpose is to ensure every child with SEMH and complex needs can access their right to a meaningful education. We inspire learners to discover their potential, thrive with independence, and build fulfilling futures beyond post-16. Through targeted skill development for mental health and well-being, and community contribution, we lay the foundation for lifelong success.
School Mission
We nurture confident readers, curious learners, and kind individuals who understand their strengths and needs, building a foundation for lifelong success. Our learners thrive as active, confident, and connected members of their community, building meaningful relationships that enrich their lives and those around them.
To achieve this, we collaborate with families and professionals to create a safe, predictable, and aligned support network. Our relational practice is guided by the principles of Trauma Informed Schools, UNICEF’s Rights Respecting Schools, Restorative Justice, and Equity. At the heart of our work is a child-centred practice that prioritises compassion, professional curiosity, and a deep understanding of every learner’s lived experience. This leads to decision-making that always prioritises the child’s best interests.
We deliver a coherent, carefully sequenced curriculum through Quality First Teaching, attuned instruction, and exceptional personal development. By aligning school, home, and learner perspectives, we ensure high engagement and meet the social, emotional, and mental health (SEMH) needs through trauma-informed and relational practices. Our goal is to lay the foundation for every child to flourish throughout life and contribute meaningfully to their communities.
Our Vision
At The Stable School, we envision a future where every learner thrives in an education tailored to their unique needs. Grounded in a deep understanding of their Education Health Care Plan (EHCP) and delivered through relational practices, we remove barriers to learning and restore a sense of safety and belonging,
We are committed to ensuring every learner achieves a positive post-16 destination such as college or an apprenticeship and leaves The Stable School equipped with the skills, confidence, and independence to lead fulfilling lives and contribute meaningfully to their communities.
School Values
The Stable School: Education with equity at its heart.
As a Rights Respecting School, we uphold and actively implement the rights of every learner:
- Right to be safe
- Right to learn
- Right to dignity
These rights are lived out through our principles:
- Right Place – creating environments that feel safe, predictable and attuned
- Right Thing – responding to behaviour as communication with curiosity and compassion
- Right Way – modelling relational practice that protects, relates, regulates and reflects

Denise Carpenter – Principal
Being Principal of The Stable School is a role I am extremely proud of. Every day, I feel privileged to contribute to the positive learning culture we have built together and to continue this journey with our learners, families and wider community. Since joining the Melrose group of schools in May 2023, our purpose, mission and values have become the golden thread that runs through our curriculum and our relationships, enabling every learner to flourish in a way that feels safe, understood and celebrated.
My leadership is values-driven, grounded in authenticity, trust and integrity. I lead with openness and honesty, always held within a caring, attuned and empathetic approach. I welcome professional challenge because it keeps me aligned with our ethos and ensures that our practice remains reflective, relational and learner-centred. I believe deeply that mistakes are opportunities for growth, and that feedback is a gift—because in everything we do, we either learn or succeed. This mindset shapes how I mentor and upskill staff, and how I support learners to understand themselves, their needs and their strengths.
I have been part of The Stable School since 2019, beginning as a teacher and progressing to Principal. Since joining the Leadership Team as Assistant Principal in September 2023, I have led the implementation of Trauma Informed Practice across all aspects of our school. Leading a SEMH setting where learners present with co-occurring needs such as ASC, ADHD, PDA, Dyslexia, Trauma, Anxiety and Depression requires a leadership approach rooted in compassion, consistency and deep professional curiosity. At the heart of my practice is the belief that every learner can thrive when the adults around them understand their lived experiences and respond with attuned, relational practice.
The introduction of PRRR (Protect, Relate, Regulate, Reflect) and PACE has been transformative. These frameworks give staff a shared language and a coherent way of thinking about behaviour as communication. By embedding predictable structures, relational safety and opportunities for co-regulation, we have created a school where learners feel genuinely held in mind. Safe spaces, trusted adults and meet-and-greet routines have strengthened the sense of belonging that is essential for SEMH learners, ensuring that every day begins with connection rather than correction.
With several staff who have now completed the Trauma Informed Schools diploma our team have an enhanced understanding of trauma, attachment and emotional development and this has rippled across our community. Learners benefit from adults who recognise dysregulation early, respond with attuned strategies and maintain emotional availability even in moments of challenge. This has shaped a culture where relationships are our primary intervention and where every learner is met with curiosity rather than judgement.
The impact is visible. Learners increasingly see The Stable School as a safe place where they can explore who they are, understand their needs and connect with others who share similar experiences. This sense of psychological safety enables them to access learning more fully, take risks, trust adults and begin to imagine futures where their strengths are recognised and nurtured.
Leading The Stable School is both demanding and profoundly rewarding. It requires relentless commitment to relational practice, but the outcome – learners reaching their full potential – is unmistakably worth it.
Community and Charity
The school fosters an ethos of charitable work, taking part in fundraising and awareness events, including Comic Relief, Mental Health Awareness and Cancer Research UK.
Our Latest News
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